I give up....
So Cayleigh is currently about 23lbs and 33.5in. The law say to put your child forward facing they have to be one year old and 20lbs. We decided not to turn her around when she got to 20lbs around her first birthday due to all of the reading and research I did on extended rear facing. Our car seat allowed for much more time and it is just all around safer, I'll spare you the videos, they are scary. Fast forward to Cayleigh, now 20 months. She has never been a car rider. Since she came home from the hospital she has been unhappy in the car. Anyone who has been in the car with her can tell a good story. She is much better than she was as an infant, but it is still a struggle. Her newest thing is to get stiff as a board when you try to put her in and she has my back seat as leverage. It is nearly impossible to put her in and I always feel like I am hurting her. It is such a defeat. I decided yesterday enough is enough. I want her to be safe, but I also want her to be happy. It is ...